Stop Making Comparisons, You Are Enough!
Have you ever wondered why you compare yourself to others? Do you ever wonder why you feel bad when you compare yourself to others? Comparing your situation is one of the biggest ways you can hold yourself back. In this article Stop making comparisons, You are enough, I share the main reasons why and how people get stuck in the comparison habit, and what you can do about it.
Many people get caught up in the idea that they have to be just like everybody else. But in truth you can’t be everybody else, it’s impossible!
Comparisons start at a very early age. For instance, the habit of constantly comparing yourself with someone else usually begins at school. If you’ve got brothers and sisters it can start before you can walk or talk.
In my youth I remember hearing, “why can’t you be a good girl like your brother?” or “why can’t you be an ‘A’ student in math’s like your brother?”
“You’re not as smart, or as pretty as your friend.” Have you ever felt that way, like you weren’t as good as someone else? If you did, however, without even realizing it, comparing yourself with others became automatic. For those that continue to think this way end up feeling inferior or not good enough. Feeling inferior creates a lot of stress in the mind and body.
There Is No Comparison!
It is a scientific fact that no two people who ever lived on this planet were exactly alike. Every human being has a different set of values, gifts, skills, abilities, and experiences and therefore have completely unique situations and circumstances.
What is meaningful to one person will be very different for another. Everyone is born with certain aptitudes which have nothing to do with heredity.
Comparing yourself with others only puts you down. And when you compare yourself with others you are being unfair to yourself. Therefore, by doing this you can become so discouraged that you will never attempt to reach your full potential.
The reality is there is no comparison because no matter what, you have your own point of view, and experiences. Furthermore, they will be completely different from others, so there really is no comparison.
Comparing Is Just A Habit
Comparing yourself to others is just an old habit. When I gave up the habit of comparing myself to others my whole world changed. I began to see myself as an individual with a unique perspective, a unique set of values and my own purpose in life which has nothing to do with anyone else.
During this time of my life I decided to invest in myself and hire a coach. My coach at the time helped me to see what I could not see myself. She helped me to uncover the old unconscious pattern’s and beliefs that were holding me back. Those coaching sessions were priceless. Empowering me to stand in front of 200 project managers and teach them about Breakthrough Mindsets, and work with people from all walks of life, so they can be the best version of themselves.
If you where to ask any successful person, they will tell you they had an advisor, coach, or mentor to help them to get where they are now.
This is why I do what I do, helping people to break free of the obstacles in their life so they can create more happiness, balance, wealth, and fulfillment.
So, when you eliminate the habit of comparisons, you will be amazed at what you can accomplish in your life. The world will literally be your oyster.
In conclusion, if you recognize that you have developed a habit of comparing yourself to others, and are ready to start being the empowered person your were born to be. Follow the link below, and learn how we can help you breakthrough your limitations, rewire your brain, and create powerful mindset shifts that lead to lasting change and new results.
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